Treatment of Women (NSFW, PG13+, Foul Language, etc)

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  1. zeroality

    zeroality Artificial Insanity

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    Hi guys. It's me.

    You know, a lot of things have happened recently - both online and IRL that make me want to address this.

    I know PO Forums are probably not the best place for it, but this is Indigo Social. And I put enough warnings in the thread title. If you don't want to read (NSFW, PG13+, Foul Language, etc) then close this thread NOW.

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    Yep, you were warned.

    Let me tell you guys something. I know you're like 16-22 (most of ya) so maybe either you haven't learned yet or weren't taught this growing up. But I was raised by a single mother and she raised me right (so she says).

    How to treat a woman: don't lie to her, be sweet to her, be kind, bring her flowers and candy, ask her how her day is going, notice her appearance. If she changes something, like her haircut REMARK ON IT. She _wants_ you to notice. She _wants_ you to make her feel good.

    And I'll tell you motherfuckers something else, not every single woman out there wants you to bang her. No. This "lol friendzoned" thing is fucking bullshit. Some women just want friends. Men should not expect to fuck every woman they see or talk to.

    Interested in a girl? Okay, here's what you do: talk to her like she is a PERSON, be her friend. And maybe, if you're lucky, she'll return that favor. DO NOT EXPECT SEX YET AT THIS POINT.

    If the friendship proceeds well, then what you do is look for hints. Does she smile a lot? Does she touch you? Does she wink? Does she flirt? Yeah, those are what women call "signals".

    That means, you should do something like: "I really like you and I was wondering if you wanted to go out to dinner sometime?"

    If she says no, no means fucking no. Move on. Find someone else. If you don't want to be her friend then get the fuck out of her face asshole.

    Here's a few more tips - a list of things NOT to do: Don't lie to her, don't talk about her behind her back, don't share her personal information. If you do any of the above, you are a FUCKING LOWLIFE. You should do the world a favor and fucking kill yourself. There's too many humans here anyway, and we need to start getting rid of the bad ones.

    Yeah, I have a close friend that's been just... traumatized by men and I felt the need to make this thread.

    Don't like what I say? Simple solution: don't fucking post. There's an ignore feature on the PO forums. Feel free to use it.

    I'm not in a great mood right now so this post could have been better but there it fucking is. Take it or leave it. I look forward to reading responses and having an intelligent and mature discussion.

    If you can't do that then get the fuck out right now.
     
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  2. Professor Oak

    Professor Oak same Forum Administrator Server Owner Social Media Rep Forum Administrator Server Owner Social Media Rep

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    The problem I find with looking for signs with women is that some women often throw you signs just to mislead you. There are also some women who DO actually just go out looking for their latest conquest. I'm not even joking. The attitudes of many young women nowadays towards sex has radically changed.

    Equality is key here - not just women get treated badly. Feminism is about equality for women, so let's be equal and point out that they are also at fault sometimes.

    Of course, I'm not saying that you should treat women badly, or you should expect to get treated badly. Treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself.
     
  3. zeroality

    zeroality Artificial Insanity

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    Word.
     
  4. Hannah

    Hannah Come a little closer

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    Shouldn't this treatment apply for both genders? I don't want to revere women as gods, nor do I think they deserve any better treatment than men.

    I've had my fair share of shitty relationships with men, may it be with my dad or my ex(es) but it doesn't mean all men are twats. I don't really see the point of generalizing them because of their gender. If they did something to wrong you, then it's because they're a horrible person. Gender aside.

    I try my best to keep all my relationships intact, even with those who really hurt me and gave me more than enough reason to give up on them. But yeah, I just try to get everyone together. No gender preference.

    I don't need feminism, I need equality and people to fucking grow up.
     
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  5. Kyrk

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    Bit of a contradiction along with the request of suicide sprinkled somewhere in your rant.

    As stated earlier, while many men can be assholes in relationships, women can be guilty as well, so this should be be accounted equally for both genders.

    What annoys me is this "friend zone" bullcrap. Just being nice to someone doesn't mean that sex is going to pour out of them. "Ermagerd gurls onlee date assholes, wai dun they evr go 4 the nice guys lik me!?!" No, girls date guys they're interested in that actually ask them out instead of trying to subtly get your encrypted message after you're carrying their crap around for 3 years.

    I'm not saying you should be an asshole or ask them out the first nanosecond you see her, but at least try to show some form of confidence and make some kind of move; if you get rejected, it's not like she's going take a photo of you, post it on a women's forum, and say "I rejected this loser, that means every other woman on Earth should reject him," where the whole gender population will forever hate you.

    There's someone for everyone, but they're not going to instantly jump into your arms when you hold them out.
     
  6. Xinc

    Xinc Time for Oras?

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    I understand the point of this post. A surprisingly large number of men treat women badly, and that wrecks the perceived view on men in general, but not every man is bad, just like every woman is not good. I've met my share of good and bad women. But yeah, the friendzoned thing is a bit outrageous. Not every woman wants to be in a relationship, or have sex. You have to work hard to gain trust, just like you have to earn trust from coworkers, acquaintances, and associates, and trust won't come if you keep acting like a d*ck. (No pun intended)
     
  7. zeroality

    zeroality Artificial Insanity

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    I wasn't myself. Not really up for more discussion here.
     
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